Choices

Assalamualaikum and hi!!! It's me again. After been through life's obstacles especially as a student and as a humble servant of The Almighty, I noticed that I already made several choices in my plain life despite my own negative perception towards myself. The processes in making the choices are really bewildered, perplexed and fulled of doubts.

 First of all, every single student has been in a situation whereby you are stucked in a junction of ways which probably can lead you to different profesions which distincts to each other. You may face the consequences of choosing the path which does not satisfy the pride lust of others. Some person are just materializing others to get the dirty fame of success. You just need to set your road based on your hopes, ambitions and situations. I don't want to be a hypocrite by saying the cliché phrase over again. Yes, I admit that we should not choose our path to be somebody solely on your ambitions. Sometimes, you need to include others in your circle of concern and put aside your self-centredness. A choice without much consideration will become a bad one and even it is profitable, you cannot indulge the happiness in your entire life since you have neglected the feeling of others. Feeling cannot be defined in a simple word. 

I admit that a single, simple choice can really transform your entire life. A pair of twin, been separated and asked to make choices regarding their education, love etc will totally become two distinct persons. But then, it doesn't matter to choose the lesser glamour choice which may lead to lifetime inferiority. The choice can become a very good guru to implement virtues in you. Mingling with the commoners with average backgrounds can teach us the value of modesty. At the other side, this situation can become a good platform to improve yourself since the sense of competition is not vivid.

As for me, making choices really make me know the definition of maturedness. You have to be really independent to make such a vital decision in your life. When something bad happens, you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you. So, choose your path wisely since you are the one who will face the obstacles in it.